If I were Akbar, what would be the most valuable lesson I could learn from my experience?

Have strong and healthy relationship with parents, teachers and friends.

Have a good self awareness and understand my emotional triggers as something that narrows my windows of tolerance.

Understand the importance of self management, and start to learn to regulate emotion so I can manage my stress effectively and control my impulses

Practice mindfulness to stabilize my emotions and practice self love/acceptance (facing trauma and healing) to be the best version of myself.

Know the things I attach to and value, and learn the right and wise attitude towards it, avoid over-attachment, fanaticism, and grievances.